Dear Annie: I have a family estrangement issue. It all started when a 44-year-old woman contacted my older brother on a DNA site. I immediately wrote her and acknowledged paternity and expressed a strong desire to establish a long-term relationship. She seems to be a very nice person. She told me she wasn't ready yet to meet me; over the next 2 1/2 years, we exchanged many emails, and we were talking seriously about meeting. She is married and has three children. Very recently, my younger brother's adult daughter noticed the seeming connection on the internet. My brother told her the full story (all my siblings were aware of my efforts).Updated: Tue Mar 28, 2023