Betty Absheer didn’t just dream, she accomplished

Poplar Bluff will lay to rest today a woman who was so much more than our first woman mayor, first female contracted sheriff’s deputy, or the longest serving city council member.

Betty Absheer was a woman in politics who accomplished her goals and earned the respect of everyone who knew her, while never having a harsh word to say about anyone.

Miss Betty, as many knew her, never saw the path to success as one that tore down anyone or anything perceived to be in her way.

An improved Poplar Bluff was one that lifted others up for Miss Betty, as many of the sitting city council members can attest to.

City manager Matt Winters, Mayor Steve Davis and council members Robert Smith, Barbara Horton, Jerrica Fox and Lisa Parson took time Monday night to reflect on the woman who served as the Ward 3 representative for 26 years.

It was an emotional conversation, with several of the members moved to tears.

All of the council members acknowledged seeking help and advice from Absheer in their own roles representing the city.

For many, she provided the inspiration to run, including Smith, the Ward 5 representative.

“I had watched her do it. No one can do it as well as she did,” Smith said. “My heart goes out to her family.

“I would just like to say thank you, Betty.”

Parson also sought Absheer’s advice before running.

“(Betty) didn’t always agree with everything I voted yes for or no for, but she always respected (it),” Parson said.

Absheer was a big part of her life, said Fox.

“Miss Betty was a true mentor in my life. She continually inspired me to do my best both personally and professionally,” Fox said later. “She helped me strive for goals and, no matter what, supported me time and time again. I found guidance, discipline and love in our friendship.

“She loved Poplar Bluff and everyone she encountered. She was a true light in our community and one that will be missed dearly.”

Absheer was someone who liked the positive work being done, agreed Davis. She is a big loss for Poplar Bluff.

Absheer was on the council to help guide projects like the Highway 67 north improvements, construction of Shelby Road, upgrades to Oak Grove Road, and efforts to improve industry and the lives of underprivileged and minority communities.

“Betty didn’t just dream dreams,” said Barbara Horton, the current Ward 3 representative. “Betty worked to accomplish the dreams.”

As Poplar Bluff continues to dream and accomplish new things, we hope that the lessons learned from Miss Betty will still help guide us.